The Internet has opened up a whole new world for people of all
ages. You can shop, plan a vacation, send a picture to a relative,
talk with friends, and even do research for your class project. Most
people agree that since the Internet has been around, it has changed
our lives for the better. But unfortunately this new way of finding
information and communicating comes with risks. For example, when
you visit an unfamiliar neighborhood or go to a party, you think
of ways to stay safe. You also need to use similar guidelines when
you're using the Internet. This information guide was created to
help you find reliable information, make you aware of the possible
dangers when communicating on-line, and give you tips to keep you
safe!
Before you enter a chat, be sure you have your parent's permission to do so!
Some chat rooms are considered to be safe because the topic that is being discussed is safe and because there is a moderator or chaperone who is leading the discussion. But just because a chat room has a neutral topic it doesn't guarantee that some people in the chats won't talk about other things that might make you feel uncomfortable.
Remember:
What is a web address?
If you want to start using the Internet, you will most likely use
a web browser called Internet Explorer or Netscape Navigator. There
are four major kinds of web addresses. To get to a "web site",
you need a "web address". The endings give a clue as to
what type of web address it is. Try to see if you can figure out
what the last three letters of the web address stand for. For example:
- Web addresses that end in .gov are government
web sites. Check out one of our government's websites at: girlshealth.gov
- Web addresses that end in .edu are websites
that are connected with...you guessed it! -"educational
institutions" like schools and colleges. Now you're getting
the hang of it! Check out a college web site at: harvard.edu
- Web addresses that end in .org are usually,
but not always connected with an organization.
Check out youngwomenshealth.org.
This is our web site! Pretty cool, huh?
- Web addresses that end in .com are connected with a commercial site or a company that is selling something. Check out nick.com, which is Nickelodeon's site. Bet it makes a little more sense now.
Can I trust everything that I read on the Internet?
The answer is NO! Being able to tell if something on the Internet
is reliable, accurate, true or real is tough for adults and even
harder for teens. There's lots of information out there. Some of
it is good information but some of it is just plain bad and not
true. Everyone, even adults, must first question any information
they read on the Internet until they can figure out if the information
is true or false. For example, there are some individuals or groups
that may try to sell a product on-line, so they may use false statements
to try to get people to agree with them. So you're probably wondering,
how can I tell what information is okay and what isn't
okay? Here are some general tips on how to tell if the web
site and information is reliable:- Web sites that end in .gov are generally reliable because
they are connected with our government.
- Look for the name of the organization and the author
of the web site and when the information was updated.
Reliable web sites often have a list of references or contacts
where you can find out where the information originally came from.
- If you are looking for facts, check out a few different
web sites to compare information. If you are in doubt,
double check facts at the library. This way you will know which
web sites give you correct information.
- Ask your teachers about reliable web sites to go to
for homework help. Once you find a reliable web site,
you can bookmark it so you can easily find it later.
- Ask your health care provider about web sites to go
to for reliable health information. When you get a recommendation
from a professional, it most likely will be a respected web site
with reliable information.
- Reliable web sites usually have reliable links — so when you get lucky and find a great web site, you most likely will get to know other good sites too.
What should I do when I want to begin using the
Internet?
When you want to begin using the Internet to find information or
to chat with or e-mail your friends, it is important that you talk
to your parents first. Even if your parents don't know much about
computers or the Internet, they can help you think about ways to
stay safe. You can work together and agree on rules for using the
Internet, such as whether it is okay to go on-line and when, what
kind of Internet sites you can go to, and how to set up an e-mail
account. You and your parents can set up filters, which means that
some sites that contain inappropriate things like hateful or violent
messages won't open on your computer.
Does it matter what on-line name I choose for
myself?
Yes! You should NEVER use your real name as your on-line name.
You may already know this but it is a common mistake that teens
and adults make. By using your real name, anyone knows immediately
who you are and with a little bit of work, they could probably find
out even more about you. This is especially true in chat rooms where
you can get comfortable chatting with someone and suddenly realize
they know your name, age, where you live, and where you go to school.
What kind of on-line name should I choose?
You probably want your name to describe who you are but again you
need to be careful about the name and words you choose. Remember
when you're talking on-line to people you don't know well, some
people may unfairly judge you by your on-line name. For example,
if you choose a name like: hotbabe13, people will get the wrong
impression of you and you most likely will get unwanted e-mails
from people who are just responding to your on-line name and not
to who you really are. If you can't think of an on-line name to
use without describing something about yourself, try using the name
of a candy bar, color, or something else that's not personal. If
the name is already taken, you can try adding a few numbers, for
example — Green123.
What is a profile?
When you create an on-line name or e-mail account, you can usually
set up a profile to identify yourself. Talk to your parents first
about whether or not you should fill out this information. A profile
will ask you for information about yourself like your name, address,
and hobbies. Remember that your profile is the fastest way for anyone
to find out more about you. It is never a good idea to use your
last name or address!
What do I do if I accidentally get to an inappropriate
Web site?
If you find that you are at a site that you know is inappropriate,
click the "Back" button on the top of the screen. This
will bring you back to the original web site that you were viewing.
If you get "pop-ups" (usually small windows with
unwanted advertisements), just keep closing the windows by clicking
the X button until you are
back on the original screen that you were looking at. You should
tell your parents what the web address was so that they can block
the site from your computer. Many web browsers track web activity
and create an Internet history. So, remember that your parents may
be able to check what web sites you have recently looked at, and
remind you not to go to any sites that are inappropriate.
What is IMing, and is it safe?
IMing is short for "Instant Messaging" which is a super
fast way to e-mail someone from your computer or certain kinds of
digital cell phones. IMing has its own language made up of short
abbreviated words such as brb for "be right
back" and lol for "laughing out loud."
In order for IMing to work, you and the people you plan to IM must
download the software first. The software allows you to set up an
address or buddy list of the people you want to IM. Since IMing
isn't as private as you might think, it's important to know how
to stay safe and have fun too:- Always ask your parents permission first, before you
download IM or other software!
- Do not respond to IM's from people you don't know or
IM's that look strange. It is possible to get unwanted
IM's and similar to E-mails, IM's can contain viruses.
- Don't forget to sign off of Instant Messenger when you
are finished- and change your password regularly. This
will prevent others from using your IM account.
- If you receive an IM that makes you feel uncomfortable, do not respond to it. It's best to tell your parents about it too.
What is a chat room and are they safe?
Some Internet services allow you to talk with other people in a
chat room, a place that you can go to and talk to more than one
person at a time. Chat rooms are often organized around topics such
as sports, hobbies, fan clubs. There are so many different kinds
of chat rooms that it's possible to talk to people all around the
world, 24 hours a day. Before you enter a chat, be sure you have your parent's permission to do so!
Some chat rooms are considered to be safe because the topic that is being discussed is safe and because there is a moderator or chaperone who is leading the discussion. But just because a chat room has a neutral topic it doesn't guarantee that some people in the chats won't talk about other things that might make you feel uncomfortable.
Can the chat moderator make sure nothing bad happens
in the chat room?
A chat moderator supervises a chat and watches over things. A moderator
can kick someone out of a chat if they write something inappropriate,
but the moderator can't prevent you from going to a private chat
area with someone who might harm or threaten you. If you have permission
to go to a chat, be careful to check out the topic of the chat.
Your parents can check out the chat room first to see if it contains
inappropriate conversation. Some people who go into chats may want
to imagine that you are someone you are not or play out their fantasy
by saying inappropriate things to you. If anyone makes you feel
uncomfortable or starts asking you inappropriate questions, leave
the chat immediately.
What should I know about downloading information?
It's possible to download all sorts of information, programs, and
music from the Internet. After you have your parent's permission
to download something, be sure that you know exactly what you are
downloading, and whom the download is from, before you
do it. If you don't know who is sending you the information, don't
download it because it might have a virus, which can damage the
computer's memory or hard drive. - If you accidentally begin downloading something, push the "Stop"
button at the top of your screen. This will stop the download
from completing and will cancel the process.
- Make sure you have an updated version of virus protection software on your computer!
What is proper Internet etiquette?
Netiquette is the word used to describe Internet etiquette (manners),
or the way that you should behave while on-line. It is important
to always be considerate of others and never use bad language. Only
say things on-line that you would say face-to-face with a person.
Some Internet Service Providers can monitor what you say to others.
If you use inappropriate language, your Internet provider may send
a warning to the head of your Internet account, which usually is
a parent. You could have your Internet privileges stopped by your
Internet provider or your parents!
Is it okay to share my password with my best friend?
No. You should not share your password with any of your friends,
even your best friend. The only people who should know your Internet
or e-mail password are your parents and you! Your password is private.
If you let someone else know what your password is — whether
it is a total stranger or even your best friend — then they
can read anything that you may want to keep private. Another person
could use bad language or go to inappropriate sites under your name.
You are required to enter a password for a reason — to keep
yourself safe!
Is there anything that I shouldn't tell someone
on the Internet?
Yes! Just like you wouldn't walk up to a stranger and tell them
your name, where you live, where you go to school or give them your
phone number, you shouldn't share this kind of information on-line
either. It is very important that you don't e-mail or instant message
anyone that you don't know or share any information that can identify
you. Don't put your picture on the Internet unless you are e-mailing
a friend or family member. If you are talking to a stranger, you
have to be really careful because there are adults who
take advantage of young people. Remember:
- Don't give out credit card information over the Internet. Believe
it or not, it's really easy for someone to steal your money this
way.
- Don't e-mail your photo or any information that identifies YOU.
- Never give clues about yourself, where you live, where you work,
where you hang out with your friends, where you shop etc.
- Never, ever share your name, address, phone number, etc.
How can I tell if someone is telling the
truth?
The scary thing is that it's REALLY hard to tell if someone is
telling the truth. There are people out there who misrepresent themselves
and stalk young girls on the Internet. For example, someone may
lie and tell you that they are much younger or even older than they
are. Since you can't see them, you never know if they are telling
the truth. Even if you try to check on the person by reading their
on-line profile, a person can easily lie about themselves and their
age. Bottom line is that some people who use the Internet are not
trustworthy and could hurt you.
What do I do if someone I talk to on the
Internet wants to meet in person?
Because of all the risks involved with meeting a stranger in person,
it's best never to meet someone you met on-line in person.
If someone that you met on-line wants to meet you in person, you
should tell your parents right away.
What do I do if someone on the Internet is harassing
me?
If someone on the Internet sends you lots of e-mails, follows you
into chat rooms, or sends you messages even after you have stopped
responding, then the person may be harassing you. First, tell your
parents right away about the person. The next step is to try ignoring
the person while you are on the Internet to see if they will leave
you alone and get the hint. If they continue to bother you even
after you have stopped responding, then you and your parents can
call your Internet Service Provider and complain about the other
person's behavior. You and your parents can talk to the police and
you can record a complaint at the Cyber Tipline at cybertipline.com.
It is not your fault if someone starts bothering you! You and your
parents can stop them from harassing you and someone else.
Being
safe on the Internet sounds easy but it takes time and experience
to know what is okay to share with people on-line. Remember,
people on-line are strangers so it's best NOT TO SHARE ANY
PERSONAL INFORMATION AT ALL! NEVER meet anyone that you have
met on-line even if you think that you really have gotten
to know someone well. This is the biggest risk you can take
and can put you in danger. Talking to your parents about what
you can or cannot do on-line ahead of time is the best way
to keep safe and have fun while using the Internet!
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